Malzis dog (detail introduction)
The best respect between people is listening. However, in this era of stable economic stability, the distance between people has become alienated, and pets' listening and attention to the owner is very rare or in interpersonal communication. It is said that it does not exist at all, so breeding pets can give people a special spiritual support, and the number of people breeding pets have been increasing. So if your pet dies unfortunately, how should we deal with subsequent emotions?
1. Pets are important to people
1. Pet emotional sustenance
People pin their emotions on pets for the needs of trust and security.
2. Pet pets as children
There are many reasons for the families who are eager to take care of others, and I would rather raise cats and dogs without having children. Some of them worried that the burden of money could not give children a good life. With fun, we provide their pets with good living benefits and consider their pets as their spiritual sustenance.
Supplementary explanation: In life, you can often hear that pets say that pets are his son. This statement makes many people who do not have pets feel a little uncomfortable. But psychologists said that it was just a nickname.
3. Dispetener stress distress
Due to the busy work and stress, office workers often have the suffering of not playing, but if all the complaints talk to their lover or friends, it will inevitably lead to fatigue and irritability of others. Therefore, many people choose to turn to pets. Or embrace pets to resolve distress.
4. It really helps health
These cats and dogs are very attached to people and are loyal. A study on the relationship between pets and health in the United States proves that pets can help people slow down stress and help patients recover their health faster. Domestic research also shows that pets have a positive impact on the physical and mental health of the empty nest elderly.
Pets can help children better interact with others. When pets appear, they will show more positive social behaviors. In addition, pets can help children learn to comfort others and share. The arrival of pets enhances the cohesion of the family and increases the social level between family members. Especially for children with introverted or autism, pets can help like friends.
French researchers have studied whether 40 children with autism and their families have pets. If so, whether pets affect the social ability of children with autism. Research has further increased evidence, indicating that pets can improve the spirit and physical health of everyone. Previous data indicates that pets can reduce stress, improve emotions, and even prevent the development of allergic symptoms in some childhood.
Pentian (detail introduction)
2. How to face pet death
1. Don't rely too much
While cute pets bring us joy, there are some concerns that need special attention. Especially for the elderly, they cannot rely too much on pets. Many elderly people and pet shadows are inseparable from each other, and they are with pets every day. They do not like normal ideological communication and communication with others. When pets are lost or died, many elderly people don't think about tea and feel meaningless. These are typical pet dependency symptoms.
2. Correct calm mindset
In fact, the life of pets is really only a decade. Like anything else, having it will inevitably lose it. When unfortunately, we should face calmly with a positive and optimistic attitude. In order to avoid pet dependence, friends have to go out of the house and take the initiative to communicate with their peers and chat with others.
3. No need to blame sadness
After pets, you feel sad and sad. It is very natural, and even some people will turn to blame yourself. For example, questioning whether you have harmed it, it is more likely to cause depression. Maintain the correct mentality and adapt to no longer have a new life, but it will always be in our hearts.
4. degree vary from person to person
The process of sadness is different because everyone is different. After all, the only one of you get along with your pets is the most clear. Some people may take a longer time to calm down. There are many stages of sadness. It may not necessarily follow the order.
5. Do not erase the facts that pets have existed
Many people think that when pets die, they should put away the previous pets. If they see it, they will not be immersed in sadness. In fact, the most important thing is to clean up their emotions and gradually put the pets' items.
6. Let children understand
There are usually pets and children families. They have more special emotions. If they die for pets, they are afraid of touching the child's sadness without talking. It will only make the children's sadness more difficult to calm down. Parents give them direct, honest and simple answers, so that they have appropriate psychological preparations, and children can usually accept the death of pets.
7. Transfer sadness
This is also one of the good ways to divert sadness, so that your attention and life focus is shifted, you are busy forgetting sadness, do not give yourself too much time to drill the cow's tip.
Find relatives and friends to talk, communicate to resolve the depression, or clean up luggage and travel with relatives and friends. Of course, it is also possible to raise a pet. Although the dog who died is irreplaceable, a new member will gradually let you forget it, and you will naturally calm down.